I have had an awful dream. In this dream my neighbor is telling me that I need to have sex with my husband more. She and her husband think that we don’t do it enough, but I have three children under four years old. Anyway, they bring their divorced friend over, and tell me that they need me to take them somewhere. This is strange because they both have cars, but I agree.

The next thing I remember is pulling up the cove and seeing my husband pulling his clothes on in my other neighbor’s garage, that just happens to be glass, and in the dream it also seemed to be in the process of being built. I never see the woman, but I know it is the girl that my neighbors have brought over. My husband and I lock eyes from the car, and he has the look of being caught on his face. I can still feel the knot in my stomach that I felt in the dream.

To make a long story short, I have never been concerned about my husband’s faithfullness, until now. This dream has brought out the worst in me. My husband had to travel to Chicago this week, and I have been insane. Is this some sort of omen?

--Cathy, Memphis, TN, USA

Hi Cathy -

I wish I had a cup of water for every “infidelity” dream I receive - I could fill up all of my neighbor’s swimming pools!

I’m not sure what your neighbor did recently to provoke you - if that conversation you had was real or imaginary - but for some reason you are associating them with being instigators to wreck your marriage!

How often you have sex with your husband is nobody’s business but your’s and your husband’s. Also, I think the fact that you have three children under the age of four is pretty potent testimony to the fact that something, indeed, is going on at home.

Heve you considered the fact that your neighbor may just be jealous of your happy, ultra-fertile home? Maybe the grass isn’t so green, after all, on the other side.

The Dream Doctor’s advice? Be kind to your neighbor - she may not be as happy as she makes out. As for your husband, keep doing all the things that have gotten you along this far together. It sounds from your dream report, and from the size of your growing family, that you two share a great marriage. Don’t let the “jealous crowd” rock your boat!