I had a really weird dream last night about this guy who I am pretty sure
fancies me (I think I like him too - I got really flirty with him last night but I havent snogged him yet) and it was weird
because I kissed him and he had 2 tongues!! It also happened next to a
trampoline!!?? I have never really been bothered about my dreams before but I
just wanted to find out what this one means.
The thing is I am also besotted
with this other guy who knows that I like him...do you think that has
anything to do with it? I am driving my self insane about this and need to
find some answers from somewhere!!
- Sabrena, Age 17, London, ENGLAND
Hi Sabrena -
Before we interpret your dream I think wed better do an even simpler translation. For everyone out there who doesnt know how to speak Cool British English, snogging means making out with someone (passionate kissing) - and besotted is what you are when you are hopelessly in love with a really cute boy or girl.
OK, now on to the dream - which is full of cool dream symbols!
Do you think when you were kissing Boy #1 (the guy you were flirty with last night) that Boy #2 (the guy youre besotted with) might have been on your mind? I think you may be trying to make up your mind between these two guys - and that this explains the two tongues. Youre not sure which of these boys you really want to snog! As for the trampoline, I think its a pretty sexy symbol. I think you may want to bounce around with Boy #1. (Or is it Boy #2?)
Dreams often use fairly unusual symbols to represent sex. For example, climbing flights of stairs and riding on bicycles in dreams both are believed to be common metaphors for sex. Even sliding down a slide - like you see in a playground - can symbolize the act of making love. And now, in your dream - a trampoline. Whats the common link between all these symbols? They all involve motion - as does making love.
Its natural enough to be dreaming about snogging and trampolines - when youre besotted. Just remember, though, that its easy to lose your balance when youre head over heels. The Dream Doctors advice? Be smart, take your time, take care of yourself, and plan wisely for your future. Because when it arrives - youll be glad you did. Preparing for your future is a gift that you give yourself.
Good luck with your dream guys. We hope that you soon are snogging only one tongue!