There is this new guy at work named Dylan, and I like him so much although he has a girlfriend who he has been with for 8 months. He told me that he wants to be a cook later in life.

Our work went on a Xmas cruise last week (Tuesday) and today is Monday. On the cruise, we were both really wild and got onto each other (kissed). The dream I have been having is that, he drives me home from work one night, and we go to a friend’s house where they are having a dinner party (which none of them would), and he walks in with a chef uniform on and puts a basket of dirty washing on the table and they all start laughing. Then I wake up.

I have had this dream 4 nights in a row and it is really making me depressed. I wish he would dump his girlfriend because this dream is making me love him more and more. I don’t think I can work in the same place as him because the dream is ruining my life!!!

- Emma, Age 15, Sydney, NSW, AUSTRALIA

Hi Emma -

Hey! What do you think this dream is telling you?? Are you feeling used? A bit like dirty laundry?

Well........ I guess we could all sit here and tell you that you should have known better - what with Dylan already having a girlfriend and all—but then again, if you don’t risk things in life, you’ll never know what might have been! No one’s going to fault you for trying!

Dylan sounds like he’s pretty steady with his girlfriend (they’ve been together for eight months), and I presume if you’ve had this dream 4 times already that he hasn’t called you recently to tell that he’s dumped her. Maybe you better chalk this up to a one night fling! It was pretty wild on the boat—but I’m not sure this romance is going to swim!

Why don’t you look around the boat for some other guys! Dylan’s not the only cute sailor in town! Good Luck!!