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Hair & Gardens

2 years 5 months ago #1 by silverlady

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  • I'm 19 years old.
    Last night I dreamt of my ex. I haven't seen him or talked to him in years. He hasn't been on my mind but this dream was weird.

    We were in a big house. I was inside a room with him and a girl. She was taller than me and was his sister (eventhough he doesn't have sisters in real life). I was talking to her and he kept trying to get my attention by waving, calling my name and mouthing words from across the room. I was ignoring him until the girl laughed then looked at me and said, "oh god, he really likes you, doesn't he?"
    I was embarrassed and said no. Then I looked over to him and she left. He then talked to me and started telling me to follow him. I told him we shouldn't go no one can see us sneaking out. Then he kept begging me please come with me it won't take long. So I said okay, fine.

    Then we were at a garden. He was wearing a suit and his hair was black and extremely shiny. It was romantic and it felt so real. He was talking and laughing. Then he told me that part of his hair was bothering him. There was a strand that was longer than the rest. It was very thick and smooth and it fell down his face. I told him I would help him and so I pulled it out.

    It was so vivid and real. Is there even any meaning to it?
    He last contacted me like last year or something.

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    2 years 4 months ago #2 by Stella

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  • Dreams of an ex are very common and often misunderstood. There's a very good short video about what an ex-lover means in a dream on the homepage in the "Listen Now!" section.

    Here are links to the dream dictionary definitions of that and other key symbols in your dream:


    This dream doesn't mean you want to get back together with your ex... especially given the fact that you haven't seen him in year. It's a reflection of your feelings about what your are either not getting in your waking life romantically right now or your longing for some of the qualities represented by your ex in the dream. The symbolism of pulling out a long strand of his hair (that didn't fit with the rest) is an interesting metaphor for what what may have been wrong in your relationship... something you wanted to excise from his appearance or behavior(?)

    I hope that helps!
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